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What are Cougars?

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A Cougar is
An older woman who frequents clubs in order to score with a much younger man. The cougar can be anyone from an overly surgically altered wind tunnel victim, to an absolute sad and bloated old horn-meister, to a real hottie or milf. Cougars are gaining in popularity — particularly the true hotties — as young men find not only a sexual high, but many times a chick with her shit together.

A cougar is
An attractive woman in her 30’s or 40’s who is on the hunt once again. She may be found in the usual hunting grounds: nightclubs, bars, beaches, etc. She will not play the usual B.S. games that women in their early twenties participate in. End state, she will be going for the kill, just like you. Associated with milfs

A Cougar is
a female, usually between thirty and fifty years-old, who enjoys the sexual company of younger men.
Cougars are only usually interested in men under the age of twenty-five. Also, Cougars are non-committal, choosing to move from mate to mate without ever settling down. It is not uncommon for the same Cougar to attack (sleep with) many different men in the same group of friends. Furthermore, Cougars are older and more practiced in the ways of snaring a mate so they will rarely broadcast their intentions to sleep with you until you are already in her Jetta, headed for the condo she just bought. It is this elusive behavior that earns her the name “Cougar.”

A Cougar is
Hot and sexy older woman, usually in her 40s or 50s, single or married, who is sick of her same-age counterparts which are usually hairless, have big guts, who only talk about their insurance premiums and have the TV remote control attached to their hands. Cougars are attractive, in their sexual prime, who know what they want and aren’t afraid to go after it. BIG misconception is that they dress cheap, wear hot pink nail polish, animal skin prints and are not-so-attractive old-looking hags with bleached hair (Yeah those women exist, but they are NOT cougars). True cougars are classy, beautiful creatures who have made their successes on their own, have real brains, usually with expensive cars/homes, and are real head turners. Cougars seek younger men, and don’t have to sneak up and attack…they know their younger mates are eager to get an experienced woman who won’t ask if they’ll call them the next day. Being a cougar is a positive thing.

A Cougar is
A distinguished species of older females who seek the company of younger males whilst avoiding the entanglements of a relationship, in favor of a lack of restrictions.
The cougar woman has overcome society’s proscribed behavior for women’s sexual behavior. Thus, she embraces her true self and lives her life to the fullest. She know what she wants and isn’t afraid to hunt for it!There are several species of cougars, but an insatiable sexual appetite and a lack of interest in marriage and other conventional romantic institutions are common to all.

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Adult Love

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Alternative Dating Sites

Michael G. Schurmann — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 21:18:03 +0000

Someone has said that if we had all thought like our fathers, we would still have been savages.

In fact, human beings have always endeavored for change and to think differently and this is how the process of evolution has progressed.

What seemed to be the flag-bearer of the modern era, like the online singles services a few years back, is now passé. Alternative dating sites have now stormed the scene to add acompletely new color to the process of online dating.

With the passage of time, the physical needs of the singles have undergone an ocean of change and they are clamoring for alternative pleasures such as homosexuality, open flirting, playing with their wildest fantasies or providing a boost to their romance. The conventional online singles sites are now unable to provide this type of excitement and as such Alternative dating sites have sprung up and they offer exactly what is being sought.

The services being offered by Alternative dating sites enable single men and women to get in touch with those they are seeking, such as gay and lesbian singles and other singles who have similar interests and with whom they can hope to achieve physical and emotional compatibility. This is facilitated with the help of web pages and chat rooms. You can take advantage of their matchmaking services by perusing other’s ads and by putting up your own ad, preferably with photos.

By registering with an Alternative dating site, you will be able to give vent to all your hitherto unfulfilled fantasies of an exotically different lifestyle.

About the author:Sara Brown is the web owner of http://www.InfoOnlineDating.com a website that provides information and resources on personals,dating, and singles. You can visit her website at:http://www.InfoOnlineDating.com

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Its Friday Night Everyones Coming Out

Michael G. Schurmann — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 20:52:01 +0000

As a gay single, options sometimes seem nil when it comes to meeting someone, somewhere. Anywhere. Especially if you reside in a smaller town. But, there are options to meet someone, maybe your soul mate, in person. Here is a glimpse on where to meet other gay singles.

Local College or University.

Think about what local colleges and universities there are in your area, and then think about which ones offer programs in the fine arts. Chances are, and we’re not stereotyping here, there will be some gay students. Check out the campus web site or better yet, visit the campus and check out bulletin boards for listings of upcoming performances. Then,attend them. Those performing, as well as those in the audience may be gay- so enjoy the performance, but do also turn on your. See where the cast, crew and friends are going after the show. Better yet, see when and where the cast party will be.

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Gay Book Store.

Depending on your locale, you may or may not have one of these. If there is one nearby, or within a reasonable drive to a larger city, make a visit. Not only will you find some books and magazines that suit your reading interests, but you can also check out those checking out the selection. Perhaps there will also be a bulletin board that is chock-full of announcement for events that pertain to the gay community,giving you more opportunities to meet more people.

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Gay Bars.

This one seems obvious, but many of these bars are not really publicized. In fact, there is a gay bar next door to big nightclub in Scranton, Pennsylvania. Although I had been to the neighboring club frequently, not knowing many gay people in the area, I was oblivious to its existence. Some local yellow pages may have them listed under alternative lifestyle headings,some yellow pages in more conservative areas may not offer that as an option. If you are not sure if there are any in your area,look into the above two options to see where those in attendance go.

Pink Pages.

Think of the yellow pages. Only, rather than listing businesses by specialty, you can let your fingers do the walking though a directory filled with contact information for individuals and businesses in the GLBT community. Atpinkweb.com, there are links to pink pages for the greater Boston area, as well as other New England states. Another site,www.lesgaypinkpages.com features content for Chicago, Seattle,New York, Denver and Los Angeles, with links to national listings. A quick Google search will turn up thousands of results, so tailor a search to your own city or state.

Gay Businesses/Professional Associations.

In addition, if you do fancy yellow, there is an on-line yellow page service that lists gay-friendly businesses in select American and foreign cities-all places that you could meet someone while shopping or getting a service done. The site, which can be accessed at www.glyp.com,also lists link to GLBT chamber of commerce’s. Attending a mixer at one of these chamber events is a wonderful way to meet someone professional and smart.

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PFLAG.

PFLAG is the Parents, Family and Friends of Lesbians and Gays. They are the biggest supporters of those in the gay community, and serve as advocates for many issues. Their web site offers a wealth of information to help you with things like civil rights, education, hate crimes and more. There is a place to find your local chapter, and once you do that, you can contact your local group to see how you can get involved with a group who celebrates your diversity.

So, that gives you an idea of how to get there. The rest is up to you. So, put on your hottest outfit and sexiest cologne and get ready to meet someone.

About the author:Steve Furlong writes for Gay Dating 247.com – If you are Gay and looking for love then this is the site for you. Articles, Reviews and Links to the best Gay sites on the Internet and the Dr Dating Forum – a forum for people looking for help in love,relationships and dating.

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Is He Really Gay? How to tell

Michael G. Schurmann — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 19:35:09 +0000

So you’ve decided to go out, enjoy and indulge in some active gay dating. It is a known fact that one of the most awkward situations in gay dating is when you can’t tell whether your friend is dating material or just that… a friend.

The best thing to do is to heighten your gaydar (read: gayradar). So does this “sixth sense” come in handy when dating? Of course. You would not want to be in those extremely embarrassing revelations that happen to countless gay men and unsuspecting women right? Ever uttered the lines Oh, sorry I thought you were…or I did not have a clue that you are… or Wow, I really thought you were into me…? If you have, then it’s time to sharpen your gaydar.

To do this, you must be keenly familiar with gay life, whether this be the gay look, gay speak, gaysport, and others. Do note that the following tips are not 100% foolproof. There are always exceptions to the rule and there IS still a chance that that sweaty (and somewhat smelly) hunk across the street is indeed dating material.

Gay Look.

Clothing-wise, gays do not really differ much from straight men. Both value their physical appearance and demeanor so seeing a well-groomed and freshly bathed guy does not mean he’s gay. Now you might say that fingernail paint is surely a telltale sign that he’s gay right? Well, not quite, unless of course you think soccer superstar (ok, God to some) David Beckham is gay! Men like Beckham are what people call metrosexuals, that is, men that are straight yet embody the heightened aesthetic sense often associated with certain types of gay men. They are simply very urban straight men who are intouch with their feminine side.

So, what IS the gay look?
Don’t just go by the clothes. See how he ‘reacts’ to his clothes or environment. A guy with fingernail paint may be ‘cool’ but having his painted twinkie up in the air when he holds his glass to sip a drink is a flag shouting ‘gay’! Also, check out the overall look. Clean clothes are ok but,super groomed hair, white socks gleaming shoes and a ready handkerchief too? Perfume also tells a lot. Many straight men go for the clean and neat look but they wouldn’t be caught dead using COCO Channel no. 5.

Gay speak.

Examine your conversation with your date. Does he use subtle communication? For example, does he use genderless pronouns to describe a partner? Other features of speech distinguish gay men, these include stressed pronunciation, a wide pitch range, breathy tones, the use (or misuse) of long s and z’s when talking, and the pronunciation of t and d as ts and dz. Moreover, they frequently engage in ritual insults, irony, sarcasm, sexual and erotic reference, women-related imagery and metaphor.

Gay people also have their own vocabulary, in fact they are famous for it! It’s a distinct feature of being gay. In The Queen’s Vernacular, homosexuals have been shown to use a wide array of specialized words used to refer to sexual relationships(such as partner) and non-sexual ones (for example, sister),behavior (e.g., bull dyke), age (e.g., chicken), places (e.g.,tearoom), sexual identity (for example, gay, lesbian, queer),and so forth.

The Gay Gym Culture.

For numerous gay men who are not infected by the AIDS virus, being actively involved in physical activity is their way of announcing to the world that they are as healthy as ever. Of course going to the gym does not mean he’s gay but does he have multiple gym memberships? This may be a telltale sign as gays delight not only on a great workout but on seeing all those ‘hunks’ around them.

Other Telltale Signs.

What other telltale signs could you lookout for that may suggest he is gay? The following are somehelpful tips: .

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* His CD collection includes Pet Shop Boys, Village People, and Patsy Cline. Count in ABBA, Cher, and Cyndi Lauper.

* His wallet contains membership cards to 3 different gyms/health clubs.

*When he mows his lawn, he wears a mesh tank-top, tattered denimshorts, and Doc Martins.

* His magazine subscriptions includeMen’s Health, Men’s Fitness, and Martha Stewart Living.

* In the locker room, you notice his perfect tan, multiple body piercing, highlighted hair, and his handiwork with a razor down there.

*He never excelled in sports except certain water sports.

* He prefers tiki torches and the gold candelabra on the picnic tableat your camping date.

* He wears super-tight, white-ribbed T-shirts or anything that shows his nipples.

* You’ve seen him sit next to another guy in close settings, such as a movie house or an airplane, that is, even if there are spare seats around.

*You’ve seen him open the car door for another man before he gets in himself.

* He uses conditioner and buys designer brand shampoo.

* You find out that he uses dry skin lotion, expensive slippers and makes his bed.

* He has an artdeco Kleenex dispenser, more pictures of Marilyn Monroe than you can count, more than two cappuccino machines in the kitchen, and weird pets.

* His shoes are always polished.

* His favorite super hero is Wonder Woman.

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About the author: Martin Pearce writes for Gay Dating 247.com – If you are Gay and looking for love then this is the site for you.Articles, Reviews and Links to the best Gay sites on theInternet and the Dr Dating Forum – a forum for people looking for help in love,relationships and dating.

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Background Checks

Michael G. Schurmann — Thu, 17 Dec 2009 20:18:00 +0000

The big controversy now in online dating is the background check dilemma. Many of the states are beginning to suggest legislation that would require online dating websites to perform background checks on its members or state if they do not. This is creating quite a stir in the online dating world and with members both for and against the online date background checking rules.

The complete controversy began when the online dating scene was still fresh. This happened with a website that signed an exclusive contract with the Internet’s largest background checking service so that members could be sure that they were not conversing with the criminals. This at first may seem like a good idea since it will protect online daters from sharing personal information with people that have been known for sexual offenders or have committed fraud or other types of criminal acts. However this website than began pushing legislation that would require online dating websites to perform background checks.

This website has an exclusive contract and they would then force other websites to use more expensive background checking tools, and so the subscription fees would be more expensive. This would be controversial and also created a lot of free advertising for the initial background checking website. To say the least, it was a way to rise above the competition. This however, did not come to light until many politicians had already jumped on with the background checking idea.

Checking a person’s background can be a good thing. It can prevent online scams from reoccurring and help people feel safe about using online dating websites. However it is also a type of invasion of privacy and many people will avoid online dating websites because they do not want a background check and people do change.

This is a situation that will be sure to be in the news for many years to come. There are already a few states that passed a law that will require background checks. Users and online dating websites do have mixed feeling about this and before you say your opinion you should be sure to understand both sides of the argument. Making background checks mandatory could create a better online dating service for everyone. However it could also mean that the free services would no longer be available and subscription services would be more expensive than they are now. To learn more about the online dating website background checks that are out there in your state, you need to contact your local legislator’s office and ask about multiple questions. You should voice your opinion and you can create change.

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Is Online Dating a Good Choice for You?

Michael G. Schurmann — Thu, 17 Dec 2009 10:12:28 +0000

Is Online Dating a Good Choice for You?

By Kim Lance, Associate Publisher of Online Dating Magazine

Online dating has quickly become the number one choice for singles to meet people to date. The online dating industry has been continually growing in popularity and for good reason. If you are on the fence about whether to try out online dating as a way to find romance, consider these five positive reasons why using an online dating service might be a good choice for you.

1. Greater Choice
A single utilizing an online dating service has a better choice of potential matches than a single using more traditional dating methods like the local bar or coffee shop. With online dating you are allowed to browse through several profiles looking for that special someone. When you head to the corner coffee shop you only have a chance of meeting a handful of single people, and sometimes never meet anyone at all. With online dating you have greatly increased your chances of finding someone interesting.

2. Get What You Want
Many online dating services allow you to search through profiles based on certain key phrases or through a filtering process. By only looking through profiles that have the word “Christian” or “sports fan” in them, you have an increased chance in finding someone that shares your views and interests and eliminated those that don’t. When you meet a man or woman at a bar, you have no way of telling right off the bat if they are Christian or Atheist, a San Diego Charger’s fan or if they think that football is a violent sport. By using search functions and filtering on online dating services to identify profiles of potential matches, you can eliminate the time spent looking through profiles of people that do not share your interests.

3. Personal Info Can Stay Private
A great thing about online dating is its anonymity. When initiating contact with someone you have been attracted to online, you don’t have to give out any personal information…not even your email address. You can take time to really get to know a person before giving out personal information like your phone number, unlike other forms of meeting people. If you meet someone at a singles spot, you are forced to give away your phone number in order to keep in contact, even if you have just met the person and don’t know enough about him or her to know if they have good intentions.

4. Fears and Embarrassment Can Be Reduced
If you decide to contact someone though email you can take the time to really plan out what you want to say to that person with online dating. If you see someone across the room and try to approach them, sometimes nerves and embarrassment can get the best of you. You may have planned out what you were going to say, but when you approach it all gets flustered coming out of your mouth. With online dating you can sit down and think about your email, read it over a couple times, and send it knowing that you have expressed yourself to the best of your ability. The social awkwardness that can come with approaching someone on the fly in person is virtually eliminated.

5. It’s a One on One Experience
At a bar, club, coffee shop, or other traditional singles meeting place, it is almost impossible to make a personal connection with someone you are interested in. There is active competition for attention at these social gatherings and a one on one interaction can be very hard to come by. With online dating it is personal right from the beginning. You communicate one on one in a private email conversation with the person you are interested in and are able to form a personal connection right off the bat, rather than compete in a room full of other single guys and gals all out for the same goal.

For singles fed up with the traditional dating scene, and looking for a change, online dating may be the way to go. You can meet more people with similar interests without sharing personal information and, once you find the perfect profile, you can form an immediate personal connection. It is certainly worth a try.

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Kim Lance is the Associate Publisher of Online Dating Magazine, an Internet publication covering online dating through news, reviews, experiences, interviews, and articles.

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Free vs Paid Online Dating Services

Michael G. Schurmann — Sat, 28 Nov 2009 15:00:00 +0000

Why would you pay to use the online dating website if you can get it somewhere else for free? There is a simple answer to this and it is that you do not receive the same services for free and it is not likely that you will. Just as you need to commit yourself to a relationship before you get the “free milk,” you also need to commit yourself to paying for a service in order to get every possible benefit that online dating has to offer. Before you pay anything, you need to be sure that the website is what you really want in online dating.

The free online services have many advantages and the most important is that they require no out of pocket expenses. However because they are free and anyone can use the services, children may also be exposed. When you have to pay for online dating services it cuts out everyone that is not serious bout finding someone to have a relationship with online. It is also a way to make sure that you are speaking to someone that is at least 18 years old. You need to have a credit card to be able to pay for the online service. However there will still be ways that kids can get around this, but why put out an effort if they have free options to choose from?

The online dating services that charge you a subscription fee can also be a scam. However it is important to know what you are paying for and you need to read the terms and conditions very carefully so that your credit card is not charged very high fees. The Better Business Bureau can help to alert you to websites that may be a scam and steal credit card numbers. You have to be sure that you are paying for a service that is well known and safe.

You should also be aware of how to cancel services. These online dating websites will usually renew subscriptions on a certain day of the month, and it can be difficult to find on their website how to cancel your subscription. You have to be sure that you understand this before you sign up for it.

Online dating websites are a good benefit no matter if you pay for them or not. It is certain that you should use the kind of site that fits your best personal needs. The more serious daters should have a better chance at finding what they want on a site that that has fees due.

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Online Dating – Be Interesting!

Michael G. Schurmann — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 11:12:00 +0000

With online dating, it is a great way to meet other single people in your area. The most possible way for success with online dating is not for those that are the most beautiful or handsome, but rather being the most interesting. You can get the interest of others with your profile and this should be unique, fun and defiantly honest. Your online dating profile should be your first priority for your online dating experience. There are many ways that you can improve your profile so that you have the online dating success story that you are looking for.

The first idea that you can improve your chances of attracting the perfect online person is by placing your pictures online. If you do not place your pictures it will look like you have something that you want to hide. This can be even if you are not trying to hide anything. Placing pictures will show a person what you are like and not just in looks but also in personality. It is a good idea to place at least one head shot so that people can see a good picture of what you look like. After that you can use a variety of different pictures to show your hobbies and the things that you do not like.

Your profile should always be filled out properly. If you have some of the sections blank, people will not receive much information from your profile. You should fill out the profile clearly so that you can find another person and let others know if you would be a good match or not. Age limitations and location preferences are especially important.

It is important to be short for your profile. If your profile includes many different paragraphs or silly writing, others will not have the patience to continue on reading and they may send you a message. Others will get an impression of you based on the first five seconds of looking at your profile. You have to be sure that all of the important information that they need can be communicated in this time. There is a fine line when it comes to the difference between a profile that is too long and one that is too short. You will need to get out there lots of information but at the same time, you need to leave room for another person to ask questions.

You need to be yourself. Do not try and be too funny in your profile if you are not usually funny in real life. Do not lie about anything in your personal life and always be clear so that other people that are looking will not get the wrong idea about whom you are. Your online profile will be the way that others will learn about you and decide if a conversation with you is going to be a good idea or not.

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Your Dating Profile

Michael G. Schurmann — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 08:07:00 +0000

There are many online sites that will include counters so that you may see how many viewers look into your page every day. Some of the sites will even make the information public, that is when they will post your information for everyone to see. This will go without saying that the longer that you are a member the higher your number of views will be. However you may have noticed that others who may seem to be similar to you countless views every day while you simple get one or two of them. If you are serious about online dating and it is important to understand why you are not getting a large number of the views, you need to correct the problems. The more that view your profile, the more likely you will be to meet someone with the relationship that you want.

First of all, you will need to grab a person’s attention. Be certain that you have a location picked out so that when people use the search option based on location your name will appear on their list. Find out what the information is listed when you perform a search. Many dating websites will give the users the option to create a “headline” for their profiles and this as well as age and location is given to the searcher and they can choose to click on your name and continue on to your profile.

You should be sure that you have a picture uploaded. Many of the people will only consider contacting people who post pictures. If you do not have a picture on your profile, you will arouse suspicions of the other online daters. Otherwise it will seem like you have to hide. Any picture even if you consider one that is not so flattering, is better than none at all.

You should always write a creative headline and always worry about your user name. The headline “looking for a date” may not get many good views based on its generic qualities. However a headline like “Anyone want to go golfing?” shows that you have different interests and are up for a possible real life meeting. Your user name will work in much of the same way. Joel 123 will never get as many messages as EaglesFan2003. Make sure that your name and headline say something that you want them to know. However bring attention in a good way and stay away from disgusting sexual names and phrases, which are unattractive to most users and will show you in a light that may not be right.

As a final step, you need to reply to messages that you receive even if you are not interested. Many sites will list the percentages of messages that are viewed and how often you reply. Someone who sees that you only view 20% of your messages and even further only rely to 8% of them may be discouraged from giving you a message. However if you view 100% of your messages and reply to 85% of them, he or she may not be so shy.

You need to be honest, responsive, and creative. With some hard work your profile can gain the popularity that you see some others have. The more views that you get will mean that the more likely you are to meet online daters that have similar interests as you do. It is in your best interest to create an attention getter for your profile.

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